Let me begin with a little discussion about our life together groups. What do they look like? How long do they last? Is there food involved? And other questions you may have.
We began our life together groups on Thursday, March 5th. Life together groups are our term for small groups. I read in nearly every publication about church planting that you never start small groups before you launch public worship services. The reason? Too involvement intensive when you're trying to build a crowd who you are trying to get fully engaged in your worship gatherings. Why did we throw off conventional wisdom? Two reasons. First, we recognized that most people that we're trying to connect with couldn't necessarily give a rip about the weekend gatherings. If they did, they'd probably already be involved in a church. But nearly all of these unconnected folks do have a longing for growing friendships. That's pretty much the focus of these life together groups, a place to cultivate deep, growing friendships, and at the same time, a place to explore spiritual questions all of us have and may not have the answers to. Already, since we've moved here, I can say without reservation that my very best friends here are the ones that I share my life with. This began with our being part of our life together group, but those relationships have expanded beyond our gathering to us taking care of each other's kids, eating meals together and looking for each other every weekend. (when someone from our group is not at weekend gatherings, we notice, and we really miss seeing them) We know there are other people we've met who could gain from the experience of life together. We also know that life together groups can be an entry point to church for some people. That's why we started with groups first. Oh, and because we watched it be very successful for Crosspoint, too! So we know it can be done and done well, so we're starting with life together groups.
So here's how it works. In our group, group begins by eating dinner together. We potluck it, everyone pitches in and we enjoy time around the table together...every week.
Then, we spend time in some discussion (usually not so brief but enjoyable none the less), right now about the vision/values of Catalyst Church. We feel like people need to know about the CHurch, but honestly these are values that we would hold whether or not we were beginning a new church. I think they are questions people are asking. And we are open to any question that comes about during the context of our discussion.
Group usually lasts about 2.5 hours including meal time, and often the only thing that pushes us out the door are tired children, because our lives have become so deeply connected, we love those relationships too much to pack it in early unless someone is sick, has an early morning the following day, or a child that has said "Enough."
Actually, it's not group night, but we're going to be with some of our Crosspoint group friends tonight...just because! We'll eat, play cards, laugh, watch the Masters (the guys at least, vicariously wishing we were there in person but knowing that between the 4-5 of us we couldn't pool the cash for 1 ebay purchased ticket) and just have a great time...together. Isn't that what it's about?
Now in about two weeks we're anticipating that our life together group will have to split. We know that as much as we love being together, there's not enough room in one house to make room for more people. But in two houses, we have open spaces. And that's also what it's about. Throwing open ourselves relationally to inviting other people to join this little movement we're beginning. So before long, there'll be three groups, then four, and a year from now? Well, God only knows what life groups will look like. And I'm sure I'll be blown away because it'll be far beyond what I could have anticipated.
Okay, now for the blog talk back. I pretty much write about whatever I want to talk about on these posts. But I'd be more than willing to write about what you want to hear about. So to all our faithful readers, if you have questions about the church plant trail, what's going on, how many gray hairs I've gained since October unrelated to Camden, how many Mt. Dews a day it takes to plant a church (more than 6....just kidding!) or anything else you'd like to know about, let me know and we'll try to address it. You can send your questions to chris@iamcatalyst.org by clicking
here and click the mail link in the bottom left corner. (Hint: this is also the Catalyst website.)
I've also posted the Catalyst vision message I taught at Crosspoint on Sunday, March 22nd and you can access that by clicking
here.
Grace and peace and may your experience of the resurrection of Christ be real, be very present, very here and now. Because the resurrection still changes things. Always. Every day.
Chris
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